Old Habits Die Hard...

In November 2006, I needed an escape from my life, my love life, working, family, everything! I went on my first adventure alone, for one month to London, England.
I needed to clear my head from everything happeneing.
Ive gone away on my own 3 times without Rob during the last few years.
The year, 2009, started off kinda shaky between Rob and I -
We grew more comfortable and things seemed to be going in a better direction than the last few years, when we were coupled together. We had slept together a few times, pretty much were back to living together(as far as I knew)Rob stopped spending the night once we broke up.
In May 2009 I took a much needed vacation to my favourite spot, London, England.
I had asked Rob if he would watch the apt and the cats while I was away for the 2 weeks and he agreed. I felt it would be a bit of a break for him as well, being away from his home as well.
My adventure in London this last time round, was just that...
As far as I knew, although we were friends only, yet living like a couple, Rob wasnt up to much. I did tell him that while I was away, he was not to sleep in my bed, and I was serious and to have no boys over. Thats something I would always say to him, if anything to get under his skin, until I found out otherwise.
Upon my return things were al happy swell meadows.
While I was away, Rob had sent me text messages that he was changing his mobile, this already had my guard up as there was no reason(again, til I found out otherwise)to switch. 2 weeks after my return, I rec'd an e-statement from Virgin Mobile, Robs previous provider. As I read the email, which was pretty much a sum up of his acct, there was a detailed list of incoming and outgoing calls...
The same day I had received that email,I had been emailing Rob during the day, and in a string of emails I told him how I had received an email detailing his acct activity - The lies began...