Deep Secrets...

About 7,8, possibly even 9 years back...Rob and I planned yet another jaunt on over to merry ole England. With the trip already booked and I in the midst of planning accommodations one evening, I got a call. It was Rob calling me from his car telling me he was let go from his "banking" job. He worked as a "telephone banking rep" for a major Canadian bank. He wasn't laid off nor did he quit, he was fired. Something he hates to admit, but once again, it was true. I asked why, what happened and I got some half assed excuse that made no sense to me. I forget now if it was that he had opened a "personal" email or had taken a "personal" phone call, it was one or the other but believe it was the email if memory serves me correctly. My theory is, they cant just let you go, they would have to warn you. So either, he didn't take any warning seriously OR whatever he did was bad enough to just let him go, no warning needed...
Shortly before this had happened, knowing that Rob was usually up to no good, he was careless to leave his work phone's pass code on my phone. Which after having suspicions, I began to call into. There was a reoccurring voicemail from some guy. Most of the messages from this guy, were not work related. I could tell they were personal calls. I confronted Rob on this on his return home one night. I asked him to not speak to this guy again, unless it was work related. Rob never got upset when I would make these "requests" and I think that is because, in an odd way, I had caught him out again. Without admitting anything to me, Rob would cease to stay in communication with said persons, as far as I knew.
Funny that he was worried that my blog here could potentially ruin his "career" when in fact, in the past, he had done it all on his own, of his own doing.
I can bet everything I own, that his "release" from his banking days, was due to his slagging ways and using work phone numbers or emails address' as a means of communicating with others behind my back. He would never admit to it, but reading the below posts, and piecing things all together, it makes sense that, that is what happened, and I'm sure will happen again. He has addictions to the worst possible things, I think Id rather he be hooked on smack than his seedy lifestyle - but those dark secrets, the dark side of Robert, is whats made him, possibly, the worst person Ive ever met. The saddest creature to troll the earth. Secrets kill and our history proved that...hmmmm.