Trust...A Life Lesson Indeed...

Well sifting through the morning on line newspapers, I came across yet another "Tiger Woods" scenario. A popular boy band member in the UK has cheated on his wife and was caught out. My favorite thing to read about is these people, both men and women but primarily men, who think they can cheat and get away with it. This latest story about the UK pop sensation, reads,
"Yvonne WAS considering taking him back for the kids' sake, but could make him wait until CHRISTMAS. A pal added: "It will take up to six months but they'll get there." & "She will not tolerate any more nonsense now and he will have to earn her trust all over again."
Having been the one cheated on numerous times, I can safely say, and Ive said over and over again, and am a firm believer of the old adage, "once a cheat, always a cheat". There is no change to be made. Doing it for the children isn't something I buy. Rob, for example, early on cheated on me, met guys behind my back, all that while, me thinking he had gone home to sleep. I was wrong BUT, it also wasn't the only time. After a while, it happened again. As Ive said before I don't even think to this day, I have all the details nor do I personally care at this point. The fact is, he did it, over and over and over. Deny what he will, I know, and he knows I know, that is enough for me. Taking someone back after they have cheated is the second mistake someone can make, the first being, trusting them. I, never, during the rest of my days on this earth, can or would trust Rob with anything ever again. The two words, trust and Rob, are not to be put in the same sentence. It doesn't work or sit well. Ive said that I am a firm believer in honesty and Rob wasn't honest with me. In fact he was dishonest in the worst possible way. Putting myself and others at risk of STD's is the worst position to be put in, especially as it was beyond my control. Funny how Rob is such a big supporter of HIV/AIDS related charities and what not, and it ends up that he is a promiscuous queer who spreads disease, kind of a hypocrite really. He should be embarrassed at the fact that he has been caught out as a cheat and liar. I gave Rob many chances and that was my mistake, once should have been enough and even that, is one too many. Once is, always is. I'm not sure if I would say I was blinded by love, I was in love with him, even when I knew he was no good for me, not a good person. Love slowly dissipated until last year this time when it completely died. I don't think, I know in fact that Rob couldn't have loved me as he said he did or told others. Without any feelings, words are just that, words. Actions certainly speak louder than words, you just have to pay closer attn when it comes to certain people or situations. In ending this post, I think its safe for me to say that Rob can never be trusted as a human being ever again. Anyone who knows the truth about his past, not just with me, but his past, would find it difficult to trust him. He is not to be trusted with anything of any importance in life. People like Rob are those I steer clear from. Ive met my share of people since kicking Rob to the curb and am pretty good, now after my experience with Rob, at sussing out liars or dishonest people. I expect honesty at the least in friendships, if not more. Never one to toot my own horn, Rob lost something good with me. Yea it sounds egotistical but its true. I was an honest, trustworthy and caring partner, unfortunately that wasn't what I got in return. A life lesson indeed.
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