The Beginning of The End....

Well the last few entries talk about how I was in London, this time last year. Well today, one year ago today was my return from my jolly haunt over in London Town. I had a great time for the most part. My return was exciting as well, or so I thought. I flew home mid morning London time arriving home early afternoon. Rob was there to greet me at YYZ airport. The drive home as always depressing, but I already had thoughts of what may have happened while I was away. Thrilled to be on familiar territory, I was curious as to what may lay ahead. We pulled up to Regal Rd and I entered to find my place, pretty much untouched, not cleaned. This is when Rob notified me of only having had time to wash the bed linens. It was that comment that led me to believe things had gone down, somehow, sometime while I was away. I was in a hurry to show Rob, video messages sent from common friends abroad...Rob was more interested in showing me his new mobile. Though not a mobile style to my liking, it was something new. Rob would not leave it in my hands alone, he stood over watching and not even letting me look at certain features, as if to hide something, fear of my seeing something on his screen. I went on and showed him the video messages, to which he broke down, and asked that I stop the videos, as it was hard to watch? Regardless, I went on to ask about his mobile plan etc..I told him, after he explained what he signed up for, that he would be paying more and the he should have waited for my return to research plans etc, if it was worth it or not, considering he still lived at home and why waste money? He looked a bit disappointed when I sort of gave off vibes of, his switch, not being the most cost effective of moves. He went on to tell me, it made him feel more "adult/responsible"? Regardless. It would take a week or so from this date, a year back where I would find out the real reason behind his switch, mainly while I was away. I did find an email from Rob, sent to his then provider, Virgin Mobile. This email went on to tell the customer support dept of Virgin, how an "ill relative" had moved away, therefor needing much more air time. None of this was true, the entire email was a LIE in order to try and switch through Virgin. This didnt happen therefore his switch. The "feeling more adult" line he told me was just that, a line, a LIE! There was NO ill family member, flat out lie! He had apparently that month, spent over $200 on airtime, and wanting to switch plans. Now Rob had given me some story weeks back about a new plan he switched too which would allow him more evening time, but no daytime minutes? I would ask about his plans and given very unrealistic responses. This too led me to believe, something was up. 1000 evening minutes hmmm why so much I thought, considering Rob was with me all night most night. I would eventually find out, why Rob was always so tired, why the lack of energy. Trying to piece this puzzle wasnt as difficult as I had imagined. It took less than 7 days to find out what really was going on. Having both signed up to Virgin Mobile originally, the mobile accts where tacked onto my hotmail. A week into my return I rec'd an email from Virgin, a detailed acct of mobile activity for the last 3 months. I opened the email to find about 8 pages of "usage". This happened on the Friday after my return. I recognized the numbers but could not identify them, so I called. Xtra's sex chat was the most common number. Upon further investigation into this invoice, I noticed Rob had been calling from as far back as this invoice went which was Feb of that year, Every night until 2,3 and 4am, Rob was calling these sex chats. I said to him in an email, "you were certainly busy while I was away, I rec'd your Virgin final invoice" - To which he replied, "what do you mean" - I responded with the obvious. He wrote, "you must hate me, I did it while you were away only, I was lonely." Lie number 2! I said, "its dated back to Feb of this year and its pretty much every night, you are lying to me" and then I sent it on to him. This set the precedent for the beginning of the end....