40 Year Old...Loser

Near the end of our time together, Rob would say to me, "I'm a 40 year old man, sleeping in a single bed, in my parents house"...I never had any pity for him in that respect as that was and is his own doing. While with a friend last night, a common friend, she went to tell me how Rob has to move out etc. First of all, the fact that he hasn't just shows his lack of motivation, his procrastination, his lack of change in his life, as in EVERY aspect of his existence. I would say to Rob in days gone by, after seeing how he would "help" clean my apt, that I would never(had we continued to be friends), step foot in his home for fear of how filthy it really was. I'm sure it would look OK from the surface, but seeing his idea of "clean" when he would help me, would lead me to believe that his place would actually be filthy. Upon my return from London, earlier this year, I found my place unbelievably messy, except for clean bedsheets, but he was very busy while I was away, again, see previous posts. He always had 0 energy for pretty much everything and preferred to flop on the sofa, channel surfing, that was his idea of "existing". I had said to him, in days gone by, that his mother would be so disappointed in him, in the kitchen, cleaning house, apart from other things, see below posts, too many things would disappoint her, if she knew how her son really was, the real Rob. At the same time, being on his own, would lead his home, to be his own personal brothel. The countless "tricks" in and out. I mean if was easy enough to go meet trash in the middle of the night, it would be much easier to have said "tricks and trash", which he's always called his "friends", filtering through his front door. Yet another reason to never step foot in his hovel. He will never have a "normal" life, he couldn't since he isn't a "normal" person in many ways. He should just stick to his sad existence as is, and just will off whatever he makes with his life, to a charity as that could possibly be the only good he could do with his life. The fact that he still lives at home, should actually be an embarrassment. His older brother moved out I believe by 40 or 41, Rob will break that and still be at home. He's had more then enough time to buy a place, something else he shouldn't do, cuz losing it one day will be just as painful I'm sure, as he will, he is not responsible at all. He's also had enough time to save his money to rent a place, and yet he still lives with mummy and daddy. As is every aspect of his life, the word, pathetic, comes to mind. Some things will never change, making his life just as worthless as ever. In my opinion he is...The 40 Year Old Loser...
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