Long live honesty - Something Rob knows nothing of...

Having discussion with friends in regards to relationships falling apart, we discussed or were discussing the tell tale signs of a cheat. Having lived with one, being with one for 15 years, I have a slew of signs that I now see as signs of his cheating ways. I remember Rob was always protective and nervous when I picked up or wanted to use his cell phone. There are stories of late in the British press of a couple, on the verge of a break up due to "sex texting". I can almost bet that Rob was up to this as well, and this I say because, of his being nervous whenever I went for his phone. I mean he did it when he had his land line, what was to say he wasn't with cell...he was. He was at liberty to use mine with no hesitation - I had nothing to hide. When he got his laptop, which he asked me to order...he would complain about certain things. I would tell him to bring it by and I would look at it, it never happened...why? Well as the weeks passed after I kicked him out, I discovered him flashing his vile corpse on cam 4, a pornographic web cam site. Before Rob got his laptop, he would use my PC, only with my supervision as he had sent "hook up" emails in the past. He always acted like a child when I would tell him that he couldn't use my PC. Well if you didn't do shit behind my back, and worse than that, deny it when I caught you, things may have been different, but they weren't. I recall going through his bags when I had the chance, finding numbers, but worse off Viagra, this is noted in an earlier post. Though I have been given slack in the past for doing this, Rob was stabbing me in the back, I had every right to see what was going on, no matter how I found out. Those were more secrets that Rob held against me, away from me. His fear of bumping into people when we were out, now seem like he didn't want to bump into anyone he could have possibly met, late at night after leaving my place. I recall the front passenger seat in the car being at different settings, it was always his mother? I'm sure it was. My only advice to people who think that their partner is messing around, is to go with your gut feeling. For years I knew and had more than enough hints to know Rob was a cheating whore, so I should have done what I did last May, back in 1999 let alone 2009! Once a cheater always a cheater. I have no compassion, or sympathy for people like Rob. Rob was and is no different than a crack whore - no sympathy for them, none for Rob. His "victim" role that he played forever was and is an act, for sympathy, possibly for forgiveness, possibly to continue to pull the wool over peoples eyes. It came to an end. Rob was awful at lying and was caught out way too many times for his own good. He gave away, pretty much the fact that he was a cheating slag - A mutual friend once said, "maybe he wants to get caught" - things that make you go hmmm. Maybe he did, or he was just that stupid of a character? I opt for the latter. His cheating ways, is something built up in his DNA, in his family history, his friends before me were like that, he is a product of his disgusting environment. A sad character he is, was and always will be -
Long live honesty - Something Rob knows nothing of...
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